hello, my dear Anon! Thankyou for the kind words about my blog, i’m sure if i knew who you were, i could say the same!
Many Christians still hold true to the belief that sex outside of marriage is a sin (as they should), as we are taught that sex was designed to be enjoyed as a bond within the constitution of marriage. Sadly, during a particularly dark time of my life, I did make the mistake of losing my virginity, and for a long time I was very bitter about it, and carried a lot of regret.
Now, I still regret the act, and I must take responsibility for the fact that one day I will have to explain to my future wife that I did not save myself for her, but I no longer torment myself by dwelling on it. God’s love and grace forgives all, He has given me a peace about it, and as such i’m not under condemnation from Him for those actions, nor should I be by any other person, least of all a fellow Christian. I made a huge mistake. I learned from it. I drew closer to God. Here I am now, present day, still learning.
He makes all things work together for the good of those who love the Lord. :)